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How To Stop Embarrassment Explaining Puberty Early To Children.

Age Appropriate Language With Examples.

When it comes to discussing the physical changes of puberty with young children, It will probably be you who is the most embarrassed. Why? You already have adult associations with words which you were taught to be embarrassed about from your parents, friends and educators.

Think about it, when you describe breasts or a penis which words do you use? Were you ever taught the name of your vulva or uterus or were you given “pet names” which you might still be using now. So to stop this ripple effect into every generation how about we change our attitude and pass on some real body positive confidence instead?

When talking about puberty it is important for adults to use age-appropriate language and examples. This not only helps children understand the information better but also that they do not feel overwhelmed or confused. Small educational “tips” are easier to include in a conversation.

Using age-appropriate language means using words and phrases that are suitable for a child’s level of understanding. So rather than using medical terms, use more common terms while they are younger so they can grasp the concept you are teaching.

In addition to choosing appropriate words, parents should also consider their child’s age when explaining the physical changes of puberty. Younger children may have a more limited understanding of body anatomy and reproduction, so it is important to keep explanations simple and relatable.

It is really useful to start teaching the correct names for body parts at a young age as to a child “arm and breast” is just a word to describe a body part. This updated process helps the child be confident using the word and gives a much more positive approach to body image going forward.

Stopping the embarrassment of a word, which has adult connotations, has many positive outcomes as an adult.

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One helpful approach is to use real life examples that children can easily relate to. For instance, when discussing breast development in girls, parents can explain how breasts are similar to muscles that grow bigger as we get older. Similarly, when talking about pubic hair growth in both boys and girls, parents can compare it to hair growing on our head.

It is also crucial for parents to be respectful and sensitive towards their child’s feelings during these conversations. Some children may feel uncomfortable discussing these topics, so it is important for parents to create a safe and open environment where their child feels comfortable asking questions and expressing their thoughts.

Parents should also avoid comparing their child’s development to that of their peers or siblings. Every child goes through puberty at their own pace, and it is important for them to understand that there is no “right” or “wrong” way for their body to change.

In summary, discussing the physical changes of puberty with young children requires careful consideration of language, examples and sensitivity towards their feelings. By being open, honest, and age appropriate in these conversations, parents can help their children understand and navigate this natural process with confidence.

Encouraging Questions and Open Communication.

Encouraging questions and open communication are essential components of effectively explaining the physical changes of puberty to young children. As a parent, it is important to create a safe and supportive environment where your child feels comfortable asking questions and expressing their thoughts and concerns.

One way to encourage questions and open communication is by being approachable. Let your child know that they can come to you with any questions or concerns they may have about their changing bodies. Be patient and understanding, as some children may feel embarrassed or shy about discussing these topics.

Another helpful tip is to initiate conversations about puberty before your child starts experiencing physical changes. This will help them feel more prepared and less overwhelmed when these changes do occur. You can start by talking about the basic concepts of puberty, such as the fact that everyone goes through it at some point in their lives.

When your child does ask questions, make sure to listen actively and provide honest answers. It’s important not to dismiss or minimise their concerns, even if they seem trivial to you. Remember that what may seem insignificant to an adult can be a big deal for a young child who is just starting to understand the world around them.

In addition to encouraging questions, make sure to also validate your child’s feelings during this time of change. Puberty can bring about a range of emotions such as confusion, embarrassment, and even anxiety. Let your child know that it’s completely normal to feel this way and reassure them that you are there to support them through this transition.

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Finally, be prepared to have ongoing conversations about puberty as your child grows and develops. As they get older, their understanding of these changes will deepen and they may have more in-depth questions or concerns. Keep the lines of communication open and continue to provide a safe and supportive space for your child to express their thoughts and feelings.

By encouraging questions and open communication, you can help your child navigate the physical changes of puberty with confidence and understanding. Remember to be patient, honest, and supportive throughout this process.

Want to know more details?

Check our Parents Guide to each step of puberty in more depth, covering growth spurts, body shape changes, hair growth & skin changes, breast development, mood swings and first menstrual cycles.

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